Quoting%20commentary for Ketubot 220:14

ת"ר הוא אומר לעלות והיא אומרת שלא לעלות כופין אותה לעלות ואם לאו תצא בלא כתובה היא אומרת לעלות והוא אומר שלא לעלות כופין אותו לעלות ואם לאו יוציא ויתן כתובה

Our Rabbis taught: If [the husband] desires to go up and his wife refuses, they force her to go up; and if [she does] not, she may be divorced without a ketubah. If she desires to go up and be refuses, they force him to go up; and if [he does] not, he must divorce her and pay her ketubah. If she says she wants to leave and he refuses to leave, they force her not to leave, and if [she does not consent], she may be divorced without a ketubah. If he says he wants to to leave and she refuses, they force him not to leave, and if he does not consent, he must divorce her and pay her ketubah.

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